"....有很多这样的人，他们给自己设定了目标线路，尽量囊括最佳时间的最佳景点，并抱以热切的期待,希望看到雪山，希望看到最丰富的色彩。。。口口声声是驴友/背包客，就是要取得最佳的性价比----最经济省钱又最饱眼福。这本无可厚非，但凡事有度，过于强求也就没意思了。事实上很多事情是由不得自己的，一旦你上了路，会发现自己不能决定的很多。你可以去谈价格选旅店，但很多是你不能选择的。想对一个地方了解是需要更多的时间和热情的，而更重要的也许是路上的人和事。因此一旦你上了路，就让那该发生的去发生吧，带着心就可以了。"
this is an extract from a comment to my post in a forum. A few simple but heavily impacting sentences.
Truly,
one can 'control' or choose certain things while on a trip but there are many things we can't control or choose such as weather and natural disasters.
Life too, is a long distance trip, we may have plans and choices but things that are beyond our wildest dreams or control do happen. What's most important may not be the goals we've set but rather the people we've encountered along the way, the experiences that we've had had, the memories that we've shared....
Like the author of the comment mentioned, "whatever that ought to happen, let it be, only bring our hearts with us, wherever we may be..."
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